what with nursery school fees, mortgage payments and on and on. i’ve learned to be a bit more financially savvy with my clothing budget. don’t get me wrong there’s still room for improvement, but i think i’m better. i use to tell myself that i couldn’t remix outfits, but now i have to, so i’ve forced myself to learn. rebecca of a clothes horse is very clever with her remixes and i admire how she can get so many looks out of a single dress. with that said, this was a vintage secretary outfit. it has a matching blouse that was way too big. the skirt, i decided to keep and the top i traded in to beacon’s closet, where i originally got it. the two piece with the high collar felt dated and a white top gave it a crisp modern feel. oh and this is my brand spanking new afro. i decided to get my hair professionally trimmed and will work on maintaining healthy hair from here on out.
outfit details: blouse necessary clothing, skirt vintage, wedges j.crew (old), earrings etsy
every time i throw on a jumpsuit or romper of any type, it brings me back to my 5 year old self. back in the 80’s my mom loved dressing us in what she’d call a salopette. i love seeing my daughter in them too. the only issue i have with them is that i get nervous in public restrooms that someone will walk in on me and i’ll be completely disrobed. it hasn’t happened yet, knock on wood, and i hope it never does.
so i have to say that i am loving red lipstick. sometimes when i’m in a rush i’ll quickly put some on and not doing anything else, yet feel so put together. i was inspired by simplycyn as she rocks bold lips and is around my complexion. she certainly planted the seed for me. i was in a shop and the woman working there was also rocking a bold red with dark skin and she told me it was ruby woo and i got it the same day. loving it!
Outfit Details: Earrings, Jumpsuit F21, Purse Vintage Frye, Shoes Marais USA
josh and i have very different taste in film. he likes action and violence. i like romance, quirky and very slow paced obscure films. as a former high school english teacher of science fiction. this film was the perfect balance of our interests. it is a superb film well worth watching. in fact, initially i opted not to watch this with j as i was in and out of the living room doing my hair and then it just pulled me in and i watched the whole film the next day before our time ran out on itunes. so here’s a synopsis from the offical ex machina site:
ALEX GARLAND, WRITER OF 28 DAYS LATER AND SUNSHINE, MAKES HIS DIRECTORIAL DEBUT WITH THE STYLISH AND CEREBRAL THRILLER, EX MACHINA. CALEB SMITH (DOMHNALL GLEESON), A PROGRAMMER AT AN INTERNET-SEARCH GIANT, WINS A COMPETITION TO SPEND A WEEK AT THE PRIVATE MOUNTAIN ESTATE OF THE COMPANY’S BRILLIANT AND RECLUSIVE CEO, NATHAN BATEMAN (OSCAR ISAAC).UPON HIS ARRIVAL, CALEB LEARNS THAT NATHAN HAS CHOSEN HIM TO BE THE HUMAN COMPONENT IN A TURING TEST-CHARGING HIM WITH EVALUATING THE CAPABILITIES, AND ULTIMATELY THE CONSCIOUSNESS, OF NATHAN’S LATEST EXPERIMENT IN ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE.THAT EXPERIMENT IS AVA (ALICIA VIKANDER), A BREATHTAKING A.I. WHOSE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE PROVES MORE SOPHISTICATED — AND MORE DECEPTIVE — THAN THE TWO MEN COULD HAVE IMAGINED.
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it’s been quite a while, but i have a vintage addiction that i just can’t shake. i had this two piece dress and top in my etsy cart for weeks and then just like that it disappeared. i was bugging out trying to figure out what happen. it didn’t indicate that the dress was sold, i couldn’t even track down the shop. thankfully they reinstated their shop and this dress was back in my cart and i immediately committed to actually buying it. this was my mother’s day getup. i had my hair in crochet braids and took them out that morning, i didn’t have time to get a fancy hair style, let alone wash my hair before we went out. but hey such is life, we had a great time at brooklyn bridge park. we road a total of 10 miles and i swear my daughter is a little girl after my own heart. she was singing and chatting about everything she saw along the way. this was her longest ride yet and i’m excited to go on even longer ones with her.
don’t try this one at home folks. biking in wedges is a no no. i should have brought flip flops for the road and then switched them once we got to the park. i have this weird thing about loose flowing outfits. i feel much better in heels. i’d like to get to the point where i can pair something free flowing with flats. i appreciate the look but i’m not there yet. yes, and biking without a helmet is not cool. i need to get different size helmets to suit my hair, when i have crochet braids, my afro and when i have twists. my helmet was so tight and uncomfortable with my hair like this. josh was like, “stop worrying about your hair and worry about your brain.” he’s so right.
Dress: Vintage from Etsy, Earrings: Handmade from Etsy, Wedges: J. Crew (old)
p.s. mother’s day volume 1
today is my mom’s birthday and it was difficult to come up with an appropriate gift for her. she’s provided me with so much support as i navigate my journey through motherhood. i printed and framed this photo for her. it must be an incredible feeling to immigrate to a new country, set down roots, raise children and then raise grandchildren and get to celebrate their success. her journey to this moment was not an easy one,but she got there, and i have so much respect for how powerful she it. wishing my mom many more years of joy and laughter.
today was an incredibly cold and rain day in brooklyn. today was the first day that i could not bare to spend even a minute outdoors. i ran to work and ran home. i even waited for the local train, which would take longer, but i’d have a shorter walk home. so since it’s still technically autumn, i thought i’d quickly share my favorite autumn getup. i found that vintage top on a beach trip i took this past summer. i’ve really been into boxy 80’s tops these days. i still love a nice clean pair of pocketless pants. i got these pants when my daughter was just a few weeks old and i was shopping with her and couldn’t try them on, i figured i’d go one size up since i had some lbs to lose, but should have gone up two sizes. these suckers are tight. so while i’m here i may as well confess. i don’t like pumpkin spiced anything. what i look forward to is winter treats and two of my favorites are peppermint hot chocolate and peppermint stick ice cream. i can’t wait to check in and see if they have some at my favorite ice cream shop. i’m talking about my pants being too tight, but making plans to search out this ice cream. whatevz. everything in moderation right?
summer’s long gone and i can’t help but look back at the memories we made. i’m grateful for how happy, easygoing, open and friendly this little girl is. don’t get me wrong she can be assertive and stubborn to, but i am fascinated at how she interacts with people and how comfortable she is entering a new environment. a few of my favorites from this summer…
she loved eating my chin
curious about what the big kids are up to.
i’ve been doing a much better job at keeping my impulse buys to a minimum and taking time to really think through purchases. now that i can say with full confidence that i am no longer a shopaholic, i want to learn how to make really good coffee so i can treat myself to a latte once or twice a week, but not make it a daily habit. same with sweet treats, i need to make a rule for myself that if i want something sweet like pastries or cookies, i have to bake it myself and not go out to a cafe and buy it. this will likely cut down on my sugar consumption or make me a better baker.
so back in april, i used my birthday as an excuse to treat myself to something. i was on the hunt for the perfect pair of white, high waisted skinnies. i’ve wanted white skinnies for the last six years. i ended up not finding high-waist ones, but i’m happy with these. i found this top in a vintage shop. at first glance i loved the colors, but was unsure about the fit. it’s on the loose side, but it’s super cozy and it may work over a long sleeved collared shirt this fall.
this little one can give hugs now, and her little hugs are incredibly sweet. sometimes out of no where she’ll just come up to me and give me a slobbery kiss, or if i’m working at the computer, she’ll climb up on the seat and wiggle herself into the tiny space between me and the back of the chair, and she’ll give me a hug from behind. i love her tiny hugs.
i think back to my fifteen year old self and how i felt that rules were horribly oppressive; here i am imposing all these rules on myself. does anyone else out there do that? i’ll think, okay if you wash the dishes and clean the kitchen then you can spend sometime researching hair care on youtube. no way you can watch a movie or hang out until all your paperwork is done. fold the laundry and then you can have ice cream and on and on. gah. it works though. work hard, play hard eh?
outfit details: jeans american apparel, top vintage
–how i styled another pair of white pants
damn, don’t even remember the last time i made a film post, anyways, if you want a good laugh go out and see this one. via