after our friend’s wedding in pennsylvania, we checked out longwood gardens. the entrance fee was almost 20 bucks per person and we debated whether or not it would be worth it. once we started walking around we both got so relaxed and decided, while pricey, it was a perfect day to be there. while wondering around a woman came up to me, said she liked my dress, and asked where i got it. i thanked her and said, “it’s vintage,” i couldn’t help but think about how pretentious i must have sounded. recently, i was at a coffee shop and the barrista said he liked my bag. this time i had a moment to stop myself and instead said, “thanks, it’s really old.” another man chimed in, “don’t say it’s old, say, it’s vintage.” i explained my deal and we were coming up with other ways of describing vintage items. i’ve come to the conclusion that i’m comfortable saying, i got it from a thrift shop or specifying the decade it’s from. then again, “it’s from the 60′s,” may be just as pretentious. i was thinking about why i even offer this information, when it’s not asked. i think there’s a part of me that wants people to know that what i’m wearing isn’t new, nor is it expensive. this dress, for example, was eighteen bucks. the same price as the entrance fee to the gardens.
That dress is so gorgeous!
And yes, whenever someone says they like something I wear I automatically say where I got it and sometimes how much XD And then after I’m like ‘why did I tell them all that?’ ha ha
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This dress is gorgeous…love the cut out in the back…I’ve never been comfortable with asking questions about how much something cost…I think it’s rude in a way!
Oh my gosh! Your photos are absolutely gorgeous! *Note to self: take more photos in open fields – if there was one to be found in metropolitan Chicago! Ha. Your dress is super pretty. The silhouette is perfect! The cut out on the back is an awesome detail!
I say the same thing and feel the same way. i like people knowing i didnt spend a lot on something and also that this item is unique. But either way, that dress is awesome! I cant believe its vintage! The back is awesome!
Xo,cb
Such a gorgeous dress!! I hope to be able to say “it’s vintage” one day, lol
I love your dress!
I can’t help but smile at this conundrum. A “thank you” is good & plenty, but I understand the inclination to follow up. I guess one could say something like…”Oh, this old thing…!? Thanks!”
Ha!
And then, their next words will probably be, “Well, where did you get it”?
But, then that’d be pretty assuming, no?!
LOL
That dress is amazing, and you should be proud to have found it! I always offer information when I get a compliment, even though it’s usually “I got it at Target!” It’s helpful, because if you’d gotten that dress say at J. Crew or another retailer, that person could go out and buy it. But with vintage, you’re essentially telling them it’s one of a kind, and that’s helpful!
Love this dress! We are huge fans of color blocking. The button in the back of the dress is perfect.
Stunning dress on a stunning lady! xo
such a gorgeous dress, it fits you like a dream! these pictures make me want to soak up some autumn sunshine! i know what you mean about the ‘la-de-da’ feel of the “it’s vintage darling” answer. Thrift shop or a vintage market/fair makes me feel a bit less pretentious but sometimes it’s good to just embrace it
xox
really love the back detail, and lovely day to show that dress off
Ohhh that’s such a beautiful dress! It suits you perfectly and the photos are so dreamy! First time I’ve come across your blog
that dress is gorgeous, it def could not be vintage, it’s so on trend! and p.s thanks for your congrats on wesley
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I am ob. sessed. with your dress! gorgeous!
You always have the best vintage/thrift store finds- I still need to go shopping with you one day!
So ladylike but summery. I love the navy, white, rust together…and those stripes and back cut out just add such whimsy to a traditionally cut dress. Real win!
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that. dress. is. amazing.
SUCH a lovely dress!!!
Oh, I always feel the need to say when I got something for 50% off or from ebay. It’s a bit ridiculous but sometimes it’s almost worse when they ask. I often sound pretentious saying things like “It’s from Paris,” or worse, “I got it at a charity shop in London.” Ticking all the obnoxious boxes at once: vintage, cheap, foreign travel privilege. C’est la vie I guess.
Beautiful wedding guest outfit. I love the first 2 photos of your look. They have such a soft and sweet feel to them. I miss your locks but your new hairdo looks amazing also
I live near the gardens but never went because of the price. Seems like I should visit one day. You look beautiful as always.